everyone needs to stop relying on everyone else to be happy. Make yourself happy. I dont NEED anyone to be happy, I mean i am very blessed that i have people in my life that do make me happy, but i still can be happy on my own. If you rely so much on other people for your happiness you are going to be let down and then start blaming them for your troubles and unhappiness. thats not fair to them or yourself. I find happiness in so much, I fall in love with so much, like new music, bright colors, painting, making people smile, my books, zelda...theres so much that you can find to make yourself happy. go find it and learn to be happy alone, because then you will be happier when you are with someone.